Yesterday, I made a post and inside the post, I stated that I dated several men before I got married. And one thing came to say how I'm supposed to be a virgin until marriage and how modern women are shameless. (I deleted the comment but I made screenshots).
As someone who got married at 33 (which I stated on the post), I'm NOT even going to begin to analyze the ridiculousness of anyone expecting me to be a virgin at 33. Only to get married to a man who phucked several women.
Married or not, none of my children should be virgins past 28 abeg.
My husband and I dated other people before marriage and we are both aware of that and okay with that.
Virginity is good. But it guarantees NOTHING (in terms of your marriage and life in general) except almost zero risk of STI and the satisfaction it gives you if you did it for your own happiness.
Men still dey marry virgins abuse them.
Well, I want to state these...
1. I dated, and phucked SEVERAL MEN before I got married.
2. I had SEVERAL ABORTIONS before I got married.
3. I still got married to my type of man and had the number of children I want.
God didn't punish me with a bad man because of my "ashawoness" and God didn't close my womb because of my several abortions. I still got pregnant a month after getting married and had a child 10 months after I got married.
Still went ahead to have a second child.
We decided to stop at 2 children. If not, if I wanted 5 more children, I would have had them.
Come and beat me.
What can you do?
ABSOLUTELY NOTHING.
My vj, my womb, my body, my decisions!!!
Okay, bloggers, over to you. Twist and turn.